I can't commit. I recognize this as a character flaw in myself but can't seem to make progress. Too many good girls. I have been fortunate to have a number of great girls give me their time. Not necessarily good relationships... Too much fear of the unknown. What if she gets fat. What if she gets boring. What if she decides she doesn't want children. What if she won't cook and clean. What if she doesn't love children too. I know these are all things that we talk about before Too much responsibility.